I’d venture there were some very good reasons why his ex broke up with him. You may have gotten a glimpse into that.I find it hard to believe you listened to all these ex stories for 6 mos. before saying something about it to him. You must be an extremely patient person. I would cruised after a couple of dates. It’s one thing to listen to ex stories that just naturally come up as part of getting to know each other. But constantly? And with an ex of 10 years ago? That girlfriend is one of those huge red flags. A giant flaming red tent in my book.